Life in London
I took my time deciding if now was a good time in my life to spend a few months in Europe, and as a result of that I ended up being waitlisted right up until the last minute. When I was told that I was actually going to get the chance to go this semester I was overwhelmed. I began preparing myself for this trip, but then things took a turn for the worst. Two weeks before I departed for London, I started to feel very ill and went to see several doctors. That’s when I was diagnosed with acute Mononucleosis, a disease where the intense flu like symptoms and fatigue could last for months. I was bedridden for over a week and just barely had the strength to make the flight to London.
The first week in London, I was so excited to be here. It felt like a short vacation and the reality of how long I was really going to be he here had not quite set in yet. The Monmouth crew really got a change to bond as we took a double decker bus tour and our first trip to Wegamama’s for dinner. We all attended a walking tour and our first club night with the school that weekend as well. The following week was my 20th birthday and we all celebrated by going to TGI Fridays, which is where I work back home. We had a great time and things were looking great, but I was finding myself very exhausted, quite often.
We started to travel almost immediately. Our first two destinations were Prague, and Amsterdam. I had not planned on going to either places, but I figured it was probably a once in a lifetime chance to see something like this. I am glad I went because I learned so much. The history of both cities was so intriguing. It was my first taste of culture shock because no one really spoke English in either country, and the people there were not very welcoming. Figuring out the money conversions between pounds, euros, crowns and dollars became a challenge too!
The following week a bunch of us started to sightsee in London on our own. We ventured to Trafalgar Square and the National Gallery on day, and the next we went to Buckingham Palace to see the changing of the guards. We strolled through Harrods and did some shopping at the Camden Markets. I would usually get tired early and said goodnight when everyone went out clubbing. I did get a chance to see a popular British artist, Mika, perform in a music store, and also got tickets to see a Brand New concert, who has a song titled “Just law and a Semester Abroad” about his girlfriend studying in England.
The classes I have been taking are an experience all in themselves as well. For my theatre class I had the privilege of seeing several musicals in the West end including: Guys and Dolls, Porgy and Bess, Avenue Q, Mary Poppins, and my favorite, Billy Elliot. For my Arts in the Press we took field trips to various museums and saw the theatrical productions of Man of Mode, and Jump. The Media Ethics class has been controversial due to the diversity of the class and the fact that every student has been brought up with different laws, and morals in respect to their homeland. The Film class I have been taking has opened my eyes up to different type of cinematography all over the world, and my Shakespeare class was a timeless classic that was a real gem to be involved in.
Things began to get a little rough as some of the Monmouth students began to get more comfortable going out and drinking regularly harassing me when they got back at the late hours of the night. At first it was in jest, but things began to get out of hand to the point where it was not acceptable. Some came and apologized for their behavior, but a few were just too immature to realize how ridiculous their behavior was. I tried to cope and packed for Spring Break.
For a week and a half, a few of us traveled from Milan, to Venice, to Rome, and finally to Athens. I seemed to be the butt of every joke and was not included with the girls I was traveling with so I stayed as invisible as possible and just enjoy the trip as if I was on my own. All of Italy was amazing, and in Rome we were lucky enough to have my roommate’s extended family take us in and show us around the city. They owned a restaurant and fed us until we could not eat another bite. Dinner was very interesting because I know some Italian, my roommate speaks Arabic, her family spoke both, and the other girls spoke English. There were three languages going at once around the dinner table, and no one ever knew everything that was going on at any point in the conversation. The food was insane too. I had always eaten simple and safe so when they put several types of seafood on my plate that was staring up at me I was a little intimidated. The term “When in Rome…” really did apply here and I just went for it. Luckily the food was delicious and I had never had anything so good in my entire life.
When we got to Greece, the girls were used to being spoiled in Rome and seemed to have lost their sense of adventure. They seemed even more annoyed with the fact that I was excited to be there instead of lingering of the fact that we were not living like royalty anymore. The rest of the trip was spectacular but at the same time it was miserable being around such bullies. They would not let me hang out with them in the hostel room one night, so after sulking for a while I went and met many other people studying abroad or traveling around all over Europe as well. We exchanged stories and shared opinions and ended up having one of the most interesting nights yet. Eventually we left for London and if things had not been tough enough, the airline lost my luggage.
I roughed it for a few days with very few possessions until my luggage was returned to me. My situation with the girls only grew worse and started to feel threatened to the point where I had to report my circumstance to my advisor. She was very concerned and helped me switch to a rooms where I would be left alone. Thing here were almost instantly better, but my self esteem had suffered and I started to become more homesick then ever. I started to realize how distant my boyfriend and other friends back home had become. They had all moved on and developed lives without me since I’d been gone for months. I started to talk to the school therapist who helped me sort out the issues that I had developed from my experience here.
My attitude started to change when Dana and I took off for Spain for Easter Break. We spent three days in Barcelona and three in Mallorca. We saw all of the sights in Barcelona and had a taste of the local food. In Mallorca, it rained most of the time, but we still got the chance to meet people from all over Europe, especially the United Kingdom. We discussed language and cultural differences as we talked the night away.
I had originally planned a trip to Paris for me a few Monmouth girls, but somehow they decided that I was not welcome, even though I was the one that set everything up. I figured it was best if I did not let them ruin Paris for me anyway, and shelled out the extra money to go with the school. It was a good choice and I had a fantastic time. Paris is more beautiful then I could have ever imagined. We has our first real problem with guy as they would follow us everywhere and we even got circled and chased into our hotel one night. While quietly waiting for the train a French boy cursed us and then spit on us. It was the first time we were belittled simply for speaking English. We were offended, but thought it best to ignore the situation and not cause a scene. We were fortunate enough to have gorgeous weather while we were there and really had some grand memories to take back to London.
When we got home later that day, Katie and I attended a service at Westminster Abby where we learned that it was the eve of St. George’s Day! We took a walk down the Thames and marveled at what we would be leaving soon. The next day I went on a very long walk by myself around London. I saw as much as I could in four hours and even saw the St. George Celebration in Trafalgar Square. Caitlyn and I went for a run through Regent’s Park and took in all of our surroundings. Later that week, a few Regents’ students ventured to the Tower of London to learn more about the town’s history and see the Crowned Jewels. Today I spent my last Saturday getting lost among the crazy shopping scene on Oxford Street. It is the most bittersweet feeling knowing that I am finally going home in a few days, but ironically I have just learned my place here in London and starting to feel like I belong.
It is funny that the future of my study abroad experience was unknown up until a few weeks before it was time to leave. If I had to do it differently, I do not think I would. If it was not for the ups and downs, the obstacles and the celebrations, then I would not have experienced all that I did. There was suffering and hardships but the rewards and achievements out weigh them by far. I have grown in many ways and will always look back on this journey as an enchanting time in my life. The place I have gone and the things I have seen will stay with me forever. The thing I have learned and the people I have met have helped mold the person I have become. My life has become a never ending adventure, and I have this experience to thank for opening up my eyes to the world and all that exists in it.